Enduring Soul

Online Trauma Therapy & EMDR in Texas and Connecticut

For people who have been strong for too long

Endure (verb)

To remain firm under suffering or misfortune without yielding; To undergo without giving in.

Hello you beautiful, enduring soul. You have made it so far, please know that you do not have to go any further alone. Should you choose, I would be honored to be a part of your healing journey. It takes tremendous strength to survive, and sometimes even more to ask for help. You have proven what you can endure. Now let’s work together to create a life you can enjoy and embrace, rather than one you simply have to endure.

Darian Aviles, LCSW

“The most authentic thing about us is our capacity to create, to overcome, to endure, to transform, to love, and to be greater than our suffering.”

Ben Okri

Hello Sweet Soul,

To introduce myself, my name is Darian Aviles, and I want to remind you that I am just as human as you are. I struggle with things just like every human does, and I believe that no one should have to struggle alone.

I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker in both Connecticut and Texas. I have a Bachelor’s Degree in Psychology and a Master’s in Clinical Social Work, and I have worked in crisis centers with survivors of trauma, domestic violence, and sexual assault.

I specialize in working with people who have been strong for too long—people who feel the weight of the world or feel like they have to put on a mask to make everyone around them comfortable.

I see you.

You have already proven how much you can endure. Therapy shouldn't just help you become better at carrying it all—it should help you create a life where you no longer have to. Let’s talk so I can help carry some of that weight, help you begin to take off that mask, and work toward a life where you can do more than simply endure. You deserve the opportunity to thrive.

You are enough without having to be everything for everyone else.

As a survivor of domestic violence and a single mother to a young son, I understand that healing is rarely simple or linear. My lived experiences have shaped not only who I am, but also the compassion, authenticity, and intention I bring into the therapy room. My personal and professional values are inextricably intertwined.

My clients describe me as a compassionate, empathetic, and understanding therapist while still being supportive and direct when needed. Clients say that I have a good balance of listening while also educating them and of providing a safe, accepting space while still encouraging growth. I try to meet my clients where they are. This is your healing, and you set the pace at which we proceed. Together, we will work to find the therapeutic approach that works best for you.

I believe that some of the hardest pain we experience as human beings is the pain we experience alone—even when we are surrounded by people we love. That can be incredibly debilitating and lonely. My drive is rooted in the belief that no one should have to go through the hardest chapters of their life alone. However, sometimes it can be difficult to find someone to lean on.

This is why I offer online therapy services: to make finding support more accessible, reduce some of the obstacles that may stand in the way, and make therapy more convenient for you.

Services

  • 15 Minute Consultation

    FREE

    Let’s touch base and discuss what you are hoping to get out of counseling, any questions you may have, and if Enduring Soul is a good fit for you.

  • 90 Minute Intake

    Meet with counselor to discuss confidentiality, expectations, rates, and complete documentation/necessary forms

  • Individual Talk Therapy

    One hour - 90 minute sessions of talk therapy that uses a specific therapeutic approach that client and counselor agree upon.

  • EMDR Therapy

    90 minute therapy session in which the client and counselor work through EMDR counseling modality.

Frequently Asked Questions

  • Client Testimonies

    “Darian has been amazing! She is helping me to understand feelings, emotions, and physical effects that are happening to me. She knows when to push me and explains why. I have had several therapists and by far she is the best I have ever had!”

  • Client Testimonies

    “Darian was beyond professional with her expertise and knowledge, all the while connecting on a personable level. Can not thank her enough for all of her support and so wish that I had more time with her. She is truly an asset!!!”

  • Client Testimonies

    “I am very pleased with Darian and how much she has helped me through one of the hardest times of my life.”

  • Client Testimonies

    “Darian has been a life saver in every aspect. I immediately felt her as being genuine and invested. I contribute my commitment for wellness and recovery to her always being present. She just gets it. I am forever grateful.”

  • Client Testimonies

    “Darian helped me to understand that I too became a victim and need to process and cope with my feelings. She taught me how to open the lines of communication on a very sensitive subject with my daughter. Darian was very successful in helping me work through my feelings of anger and hurt towards the perpetrator. She also helped me to realize that my pain was very real and normal. She helped me feel valued again.”

  • Client Testimonies

    “Darian is amazing. Friendly and easy to talk to. I was skeptical about going into counseling at first because of “being a guy” but she has made the process easy and every week I always look forward to my session.”

  • Client Testimonies

    “I was not sure that Darian was going to be a good fit for myself. But, after the 3rd visit in?! I was pleasantly thankful for pushing through and help me dig deep into things I hadn’t seen before.”

  • Client Testimonies

    “Darian has been so amazing. Best counselor I have ever had hands down. I feel no judgement and truly feel like it is a complete safe place for me to share my emotions. Wish I could have her as my counselor for life!”

  • Client Testimonies

    “I feel as if I’m finally understanding more about what brought me to this place in my life and Darian is helping me find the grace I need to heal. I really feel supported and strengthened by Darian. She is helping me on so many levels, and while it might be overwhelming at times, it makes me appreciate how strong I am and how far I’ve come. I know I have farther to go, but I definitely feel hopeful. I couldn’t have asked for a better counselor!”

Enduring Soul

Counseling services for those who no longer want to simply endure, but to thrive.

Serving clients in Connecticut and Texas

512-630-2022

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