Enduring Soul
Online Trauma Therapy & EMDR in Texas and Connecticut
For people who have been strong for too long
Endure (verb)
To remain firm under suffering or misfortune without yielding; To undergo without giving in.
Hello you beautiful, enduring soul. You have made it so far, please know that you do not have to go any further alone. Should you choose, I would be honored to be a part of your healing journey. It takes tremendous strength to survive, and sometimes even more to ask for help. You have proven what you can endure. Now let’s work together to create a life you can enjoy and embrace, rather than one you simply have to endure.
Darian Aviles, LCSW
“The most authentic thing about us is our capacity to create, to overcome, to endure, to transform, to love, and to be greater than our suffering.”
Ben Okri
Hello Sweet Soul,
To introduce myself, my name is Darian Aviles, and I want to remind you that I am just as human as you are. I struggle with things just like every human does, and I believe that no one should have to struggle alone.
I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker in both Connecticut and Texas. I have a Bachelor’s Degree in Psychology and a Master’s in Clinical Social Work, and I have worked in crisis centers with survivors of trauma, domestic violence, and sexual assault.
I specialize in working with people who have been strong for too long—people who feel the weight of the world or feel like they have to put on a mask to make everyone around them comfortable.
I see you.
You have already proven how much you can endure. Therapy shouldn't just help you become better at carrying it all—it should help you create a life where you no longer have to. Let’s talk so I can help carry some of that weight, help you begin to take off that mask, and work toward a life where you can do more than simply endure. You deserve the opportunity to thrive.
You are enough without having to be everything for everyone else.
As a survivor of domestic violence and a single mother to a young son, I understand that healing is rarely simple or linear. My lived experiences have shaped not only who I am, but also the compassion, authenticity, and intention I bring into the therapy room. My personal and professional values are inextricably intertwined.
My clients describe me as a compassionate, empathetic, and understanding therapist while still being supportive and direct when needed. Clients say that I have a good balance of listening while also educating them and of providing a safe, accepting space while still encouraging growth. I try to meet my clients where they are. This is your healing, and you set the pace at which we proceed. Together, we will work to find the therapeutic approach that works best for you.
I believe that some of the hardest pain we experience as human beings is the pain we experience alone—even when we are surrounded by people we love. That can be incredibly debilitating and lonely. My drive is rooted in the belief that no one should have to go through the hardest chapters of their life alone. However, sometimes it can be difficult to find someone to lean on.
This is why I offer online therapy services: to make finding support more accessible, reduce some of the obstacles that may stand in the way, and make therapy more convenient for you.
Services
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15 Minute Consultation
FREE
Let’s touch base and discuss what you are hoping to get out of counseling, any questions you may have, and if Enduring Soul is a good fit for you.
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90 Minute Intake
Meet with counselor to discuss confidentiality, expectations, rates, and complete documentation/necessary forms
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Individual Talk Therapy
One hour - 90 minute sessions of talk therapy that uses a specific therapeutic approach that client and counselor agree upon.
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EMDR Therapy
90 minute therapy session in which the client and counselor work through EMDR counseling modality.
Frequently Asked Questions
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EMDR stands for Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing. It is a therapy modality that uses bilateral stimulation (use of stimulus that is presented to both sides of the body) designed to alleviate distress associated with trauma, particularly with PTSD and the memories associated with it. It focuses on past disturbances or emotional experiences that affect your daily life. The goal is to work through these obstacles so that your daily life is not effected by past experiences.
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No, In EMDR you are completely aware the entire time. You are awake and have the power to stop at any time.
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Talk Therapy is a more traditional form of therapy that focuses on identifying any negative beliefs that you may have developed because of past experiences. You and I would be participating in one-on-one conversation where I ask questions to assist you in self reflection. The goal is to improve self awareness, assist you in making sense of any negative experiences, and how you respond or react to them. With this new insight, I then support you in identifying and implementing strategies for managing any stressors that effect your day to day life.
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While both forms of therapy help to overcome trauma, EMDR is much more concise in its process. It can minimize the extent in which clients relive their trauma unlike talking through it in talk therapy. EMDR uses bilateral stimulation to help process traumatic memories on a physical and physiological level, helping process the trauma without necessarily trying to make sense of it. While talk therapy involves more communication and open dialogue, it can allow the client to explore their trauma in depth and work to make sense of it. Both are very beneficial, each client is unique and this is where we can work together to find which therapeutic approach works for you.
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Being that I am licensed in multiple states, rates are based on location to reflect cost of living differences. Please feel free to reach out through email or set up a free consultation to discuss what that looks like for your area.
Enduring Soul
Counseling services for those who no longer want to simply endure, but to thrive.
Serving clients in Connecticut and Texas
512-630-2022
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